"You'll fall more in love than you ever have in your life."
Yeah, got it in one. He drives me a little bit nuts with the meltdowns, but then he finally falls asleep and all I can do is stare at that perfect little face, and I go right back to day one.
"You're having heartburn? Oh, he must have lots of hair! But he'll rub it off in the crib and be bald for a while too!"
As you've seen, JJ was indeed born with a mop. Still waiting on the baldness, thus far there is no indication of hair loss. No Baby Rogaine on the horizon. (Yes, I'm kidding.)
Four days. Almost four months.
"Childbirth is the most painful/beautiful/horrifying/magical thing you will ever experience."
Intense? Yes. Beautiful? The reward was, the process, not hardly, things were far too chaotic. Agonizing... no, not really. The last 15 minutes scared the hell out of me, and that's what made it bad. Now I know. Magical? That one I gotta give ya... five minutes after he was out, I was already saying, "Yeah, that was intense... but I could do it again."
"You'll be completely paranoid about germs and bugs and air and (insert potential life-threatening danger)."
Surprisingly not. Yes, I throw the cats out of the bedroom when we're all asleep, or if the baby is napping and I'm not in there to watch. Yes, I make sure his harness is snug in his car seat. Yes, I have smiled sweetly at idiotic fellow motorists while cussing them in my soul. No, I don't insist that people use hand sanitizer before they touch the baby, or worry that the extra gentle shampoo I buy for me will somehow turn toxic and burn his scalp because it doesn't say "Baby Shampoo" on the front. Soap is soap.
"Cloth diapers? You're crazy! I know you, you hate doing laundry, you'll give up in a week and go back to disposables!!!"
I'll admit it, this one had me worried, but JJ's almost four months old and I'm adding to our stash of dipes every time I can scrape $20 to spare. His butt hasn't seen a disposable diaper since he was three weeks old. The laundry? At first, John did it all. And I confess, he still deals with the poopy ones. But diaper laundry has turned out to be the easiest, least complicated, and most easily maintained laundry ever. And we have yet to make the acquaintance of the infamous blow-out.
"You'll sleep again... someday." (Maniacal chuckling and that "It's your turn" grin.)
Half & half. We've hit the four month sleep regression with a vengeance, so NOW I've experienced the three to four wake ups a night to feed the baby. I'm hurting, I tell ya, folks. I am one sleep deprived momma. Up until two weeks ago, I swear to you we hit the baby lottery on night sleep. But last night and the night before, we got it down to one middle of the night wake up, and honestly he was never really awake, just fussed enough to get my attention, ate, and was back in the cosleeper in twenty minutes. So it's (I hope) a growth spurt thing, and we can go back to sleeping through the night here soon.
Sweet Jesus, let it be so.
"You'll get used to noises while the baby is sleeping and stop chewing people out for breathing."
Not so much. Four months next week, and I still flinch every time something hits the floor while JJ is napping. Answering one's cell phone will get you shooed into the kitchen, and a belly laugh? If looks could kill, my husband would be very very crispy several times over by now. People who ruin half an hour's work and wake JJ right as he's almost asleep are considered to be volunteering to fix the situation.
"Breastfed babies tend to be smaller, so don't worry when he doesn't chunk up right away."
Thanks all for the warning. Keeping this in mind helped me not completely panic when JJ didn't start really filling out until he was closing on two months old. Y'all have seen the pictures, he was a very slender guy, and even though he's chubbed out nicely, I don't think he's ever going to be the roly poly sumo baby.
Two Weeks Two Months
Three days ago... and yes, folks, that's the same type diaper in all three pictures.
"Any pacifier will do, sometimes they just want to suck."
The second part is absolutely true. The first part is a load of bovine excrement. The cheap binkies we got at first just to have a few were barely tolerated. When he was about 10 weeks old, I bought a couple of Soothies, and he now flatly refuses to take any other pacifier. As evidenced by his literally spitting one of the old ones at my nose and screaming at me today when I couldn't find the Soothie and tried an old Nuk in desperation. Yeah, bad call, Mom.
And my absolute all time favorite:
"Don't worry, breast-milk poops don't stink."
Every single one of my friends who has ever breast-fed a baby has said this to me.
I have just one thing to say.
You are, every last one of you,
Dirty. Rotten. Liars.